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Tips for Communication Success1. When sharing with your partner, be skillful and tactful. Know that if your partner feels attacked, s/he will respond defensively. Speak in a loving tone.2. Communicate your love and appreciation more often than your displeasure. 3. Avoid analyzing, theorizing about or telling your partner the way he/she is. 4. Be a good listener. Make an effort to understand your partner’s reality. When you listen, repeat or mirror back what your partner is saying without inserting your own commentary. 5. If you feel your partner is often defensive, ask him/her to listen to you without defense. Work on sharing from your integrity whether or not you get the “right” response. 
6. Be gentle and kind in heart but direct. Just say it. 7. Speak about yourself, “I feel….” Or “I think…” versus assumptions about the other. 8. If communication is poor, take a break and let the emotions cool down before you come back to it. 9. Sometimes things are better left unsaid. If you complain or stab out of hurt, fear, anger or resentment, share the feeling you experience instead of the jab. 10.
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